Thursday, July 19, 2007

How to Be Happy??





Everyone wants to be happy..that is why some ppl will go for diets to make themselves happy and comfortable with them, some buying new clothes just to feel happy..happiness is about being happy without worries and problems interference..Here are some tips i would like to share with all of my friends on 'How To Be Happy'


1) Change your thought process : leave our fear behind us, look ahead towards success. Rather than thinking of problems and getting desperate, imagine or sketch out the best outcome and then work out what you need to do to make that happen...stop being desperado and start working to success!!!

2) See the world as what it is : You have friends and family around you that love you, so be thankful!!! No one has everything, and everyone has some sorrow in their endless life episode..we cant change what had happened yesterday, so enjoy today and look forward for future!!!

3) Lighten Up : Dont take yourself too seriously, just calm and relax. Dont worry too much because it can cause a mental problem to you and will affect your entire life. If you have some problems that you cant truly do anything about them, just let them go..Laughter is the powerful medicine, the calmer and more peaceful u can take things, the happier your life will be.

4) Be yourself : We cant please everyone..and dont compare ourselves with everyone else. Most of the time, if we compare ourselves with someone else, we intend to see ourselves smaller and 'short end'. No one knows what other people are going through. If we intend to see ourselves smaller than others, it means that we dont have a self-respect to ourselves. Therefore, do what we love and beneficial to us and pay lots of self-respect to ourselves.

5) Make a scheduled time for relaxation : We are given 24 hours a day. So we have to manage and spare some 1 or two hours to relax ourselves by watching news, reading and doing other things that we like and love much!!!

6) Choose your right companion : Get involved with activities that reflect who you are, and get to know people who like the things you do. Don't rule out the Internet as a place to find a significant other, just get to know them over the phone or through a few months of emails before agreeing to a meeting in person. --> this is important and advisable to me and others hehehehehe....

And lots of other tips...but im too tired of typing and got other things to do..so till then and hopefully these few tips can help us to make us happier person!!!

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